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In Defense of Purple

I stumbled upon an amazing tent sale in Decatur this weekend that was filled with super-discounted Crate & Barrel items. I missed the opening rush, but still walked away 3 great finds –  two lavender-colored quilted pillow shams and a purple throw pillow. It wasn’t until I brought my items home that I realized how many purple items I have collected over the years.

These were just the handful of purple things that were in my living room/bedroom:

I honestly didn’t realize how much I liked purple until today – and it’s not just a particular type of purple (as you can see in the photo above), it’s every shade of the hue. So, that got me thinking about fashion and how each season has a handful of “it” colors – and how it’s rarely ever purple. Why is that? Is it too witchy? Too old fashion? No one wore a purple dress to the Golden Globes. Pantone has never chosen it as the Color of the Year. And Prince was really the last one to really rock the color – or at least give it its own song.

So in defense of the color, I pulled together some of my favorite purple fashion photos just to prove to myself that I’m not alone in my love for it.

I love the jewel tone purples Emma Watson wears in this editorial. It almost makes me want to get a subscription again to Teen Vogue.

{Teen Vogue}

{Teen Vogue}

More of a grayish purple, Tim Walker did a brilliant job mirroring the Mulberry outfits with purple hydrangeas:

{The Women’s Room}

I absolutely love it when there’s a little hint of purple in an outfit – probably explains why I own 4 purple scarves.

{The Sart}

I think lavender is flattering on everyone. I’m on the lookout for a sweater just like this one.

{Miss Moss: Colour Comparisons}

Lar and I use to read John Bellair books when we were young and I remember one of his characters, Mrs. Zimmerman, had a whole house decorated in purple. She’s an old, eccentric character and I’m a little worried that I’ll become Mrs. Zimmerman. I might start making a conscious effort to start buying more gray things. . . I’ll keep you posted.

Help Us Choose Cath’s Maid of Honor Dress!!!

So this whole low-key wedding/elopement involves a surprising bit of event planning. I know most of you are like “well durrr, Lar, we could have told you that.” but I think part of me thought I could get away with just doing the fun stuffs: making some simple decor, eat some cake, buy a dress(es), etc. Oooo how wrong I’ve been!

Luckily Cath’s dress is on the fun side of the planning, and having you guys help us out will make it all the more awesome.

A little background for you:
I want Kitcath to be comfortable and as the atmosphere will be very relaxed and informal, we aren’t talking ball gown, but a spring/summer cocktail dress. The images below are the inspiration: vintage, washed out colors, relaxed cut, something she can wear again – for reals (I’m completely blanking on the sources for these images, if they are yours, let me know!).

Exhibit A:
From Modcloth, it’s a dusky dusky champagne pink with some interesting pleating going on at the bodice.

Exhibit B:
Also from Modcloth, this dress is a more coral pink. We would accessorize it with a sash and some flowers and a not black bra.

Exhibit C:
Our last contender is from Madewell, it needs some steaming because the crinkles distract from the details on this dress. Cath would probably have get it taken in around her ribs too so it was quite so billowy on top. It’s a dusky gray/lavender in person.

So which one will it be?! Let us know which is your favorite and why by leaving a comment.

This is totally like Say Yes to The Dress, minus the drama and the money and the overly emotional family members. Win, win, win!

Thanks for your help, guys! We can’t wait to read what you think!

Statues, A Cat, and A Sneak Peek at One of Cath’s Dresses

This is one of my favorite places to take photos in Decatur. It’s right next to a popular pub and used to be home to the Gypsy Camp. It’s it a little eerie, but it’s not Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil eerie because the nymphs have cute little round bellies and I can’t imagine them ever killing someone in Johny Mercer’s house. Oh but I do love a good dose of Southern Gothic, don’t you?

The details: Long jacket, TJ Max | Red orange tunic, AA | Buckle Boots, Asos

Oh, and here are few more random things for your Thursday/Friday:

Last week when I stepped out of my car, this friendly neighborhood kitty jumped right in and decided it was for her (or him? didn’t get a good look). I’m sure it is my divine Franciscan way with the animal kingdom that convinced her this was a good idea (and not the recently warmed interior and seats). It was like watching a kid in a ball pen, except no balls, just lovely leather that must feel sooo good to kitty claws paws. After she had explored the front half of the car, she headed for the back. Once she seemed through, I opened the back door for her like any good chauffeur would. She seemed quite pleased with the whole experience:

Oh! And before I forget, Cath’s third option for maid-o-honor dress came in yesterday. I’m going to grab a photo of her after work tomorrow and then we can have your brilliant minds help us choose which is best for zee wedding in an upcoming post. In the meantime, here is a sneak-peek at one of them:

First Ever AC Tutorial – Messy Bun

At least I think it’s the first tutorial – it’s definitely the first video tutorial.

Lar has been trying to get me to do a tutorial on styling my hair in a messy bun for months. We finally got around to filming it last weekend. I hope you find it useful!

Since you can’t really tell what products I’m using in the video, here’s a photo of them:

Goody Ouchless Hair Elastics, a mix of hair pins and bobby pins, Tresemme dry shampoo, my hair brush from the 1980s, and Pantene hairspray.

The AsianCajuns Meet The Selby!!!

It’s like the Sartorialist all over again – except this time it was at Jackson Fine Arts and there were more photography people and fewer fashiony people. (For those of you not familiar with The Selby, check out his blog here. It is the ultimate in voyeuristic sophistication – I mean what’s more sophisticated that greedily eying wealthy, eccentric peoples’ closets?!).

Todd Selby was very nice, even when Cath and I didn’t recognize him at first- whoops! He even let us take a photo of his shoes- aren’t they lovely?

Ohhh and look at this! Last night was not the first time we “met” Todd. Way back in the day, August 25, 2008 to be exact, Cath and I did a tribute post to The Selby and look who commented!!! Here is the faux Selby shoot we took back in the day- click here.

Below Cath is waiting to ambush talk to Todd with his book in hand- which I stupidly forgot to get signed in my oh-so-cool way of meeting celebrities (“Hiii Hi Hi! Love your work! Your shoes are awesome ohmygosh can we get  a picture with you? Oh cool cool yeah awesome Thank YOU!” Just a warning to you readers-who-will-be-celebrities, my charming way will make you weak in the knees).

Oh yeah! And this is what we wore.

On Cath:
Necklace, Rockit Boutique in Decatur | Sweater is H&M | Top is from LA | Skirt is from???

On moi:
Necklace is also from Rockit | Shirt is thrifted | Skirt is from a small boutique in Birmingham | Belt is a gift from this lovely lady | Boots are over-the-knee Jeffrey Campbell

Lastly, in the spirit of seeing Mr. Selby last night, I took a pic of Cath’s apartment. I just love it there. It’s teeny but in a cozy way not in a claustrophobic way, and it always smells so good. Cath is, I guarantee, the neatest person you’ll ever meet (I mean “neat” in every way possible) and she has such a good eye. I’m definitely having her help me when I move to Matt’s place.

Speaking of which (are you guys still there? Sorry this is such an epically long post! Way to go if you made it this far!), Cath ordered three possible maid-of-honor dresses, and we want you guys to tell us which you like best. Keep an eye out in the next few posts!

Happy Saturday, Readers! Tell us what you’re up to this weekend!

We Interrupt Our Regularly Scheduled Programming For.

A SNEAK PEAK OF LADY GAGA’S LATEST ALBUM (out in May).

I know not all of our readers might be Gaga fans, which I completely respect (kinda ;)), but I am beyond excited! My bestie and I have been Gaga fans from before the beginning and have been waiting none-too-patiently for her long awaited new album. We’ve had tickets to her next Atlanta concert since early summer 2010 (the concert is this April 2011). Like I said, FANS!

And just in case other less fanatical followers were wondering what she was up to apart from wearing wonderful/outrageous apparel, this video is sneak peak. It’s a remix of one of the songs to the new album (Born This Way) that was used for the Thierry Muglar men’s show.

Tell me what you think of the music and/or the tattooed Canadian model. And, should I walk down the aisle in slow mo with this remix playing? (Just kidding! Mostly.)

Two Things I Never Thought I’d Do: Wear Polka Dots, Get Married

Dress, thrifted via Ramona West; Sweater, Rockit Boutique in Decatur; Necklace, J.Crew; Flower pin (on necklace), “borrowed” from a past ballet costume; Boots, Target.

So here it goes, guys – wedding news! Please, tell me when you get bored. I know I’m not the first person/bride (ack! I’m a bride? That sounds so wrong to me) to feel this way, but hearing what you guys have to say about it has been so helpful and supportive. Thank you, thank you!

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After much debate and a few tears (of frustration), we have decided to. elope! Well, more like “elope” (I do air quotes whenever I’m explaining this in person). And air-quotes-elope actually means “a reallllly teeny tiny wedding.”

We knew it would be too hurtful to not invite our immediate family to our elopement, and we really do want them there! And then we also realized we didn’t have much money. So “eloping” with the family in tow to Barbados or Ulaanbatar or Cyprus was out of the question. So, we are getting married at my parents’ house. In fact, we are having the ceremony in the room where I take my outfit photos (see above). Really! And it’s not a big room, but it just might fit Matt and I and our parents and siblings.

In my dream of dreams, I would have a big gorgeous party for everyone I know and love: lots of cake and delicious food, dancing, sparklers, people carried around on divans or elephants. fountains. you know, the works. We would make Carnival in Italy during the 18th century look like a modest soiree. But because I can’t afford that ever, I will hope that everyone will forgive me for having such a teeny, intimate shindig.

We will have a ceremony, a professional photographer, and food shipped in for the fam the day-of. So in some ways we are like a legit wedding wedding, but I still prefer to think of it as an elopement because it will be so small and not include all of our loved ones.

Most of the decor will be DIY. You might be wondering, does a teeny wedding/elopement need decor? Well, no. But that is the most exciting part of the preparations to me! I’m hoping to style this thing like mad and get some really good pics to share with you all. I want to create an ambiance that makes it feel like we are in fact running off to some place exotic. Cross your fingers that it looks like a bohemian French farm house, rather than the ATL (I love me some Atlanta, but not for an “elopement” – please).

Okay- I’m off to bed before I babble your ears (eyes) off with all this talk. Again, thanks for all the supportive and uber-helpful comments about this daunting process.

Oh! And I will definitely post one of the two dresses soon (the second one will be a surprise until the day-of). I plan to wear the surprise dress during the ceremony, and the other for the rest of the day. Why? Because I can! Muah hahahaha!

A Little Bit of Faux Fur

Most of the ice from last week is finally starting to melt and it seemed like everyone was out and about today. It was even warm enough for me to wear my coat unbuttoned. Of course that didn’t stop me from wearing my cozy faux fur scarf.

Lar and I met up for coffee to discuss wedding details. I’m her unofficial wedding planner/maid of honor. Considering that Lar wants an itty-bitty, teeny-tiny, step-above-a-courthouse-wedding, I think I can handle the job. I’ve already made a spreadsheet! I’ll let Lar tell you the details as we figure it all out.

I’ve been wearing my new knit hat from Squash Blossom Boutique all weekend. It was 50% off, so I felt like I could get it even though I’m trying to save up for a decent bridesmaid dress.

Outfit details: Blank jeans, Nine West booties, H&M faux fur scarf, American Apparel shirt, Tuelle coat. The cute wooden telephone pin is a Christmas gift that my friends got me Young Blood Gallery. I love it.

I’m so happy that tomorrow is a holiday. I’ll have to spend most of the day working, but at least I’ll be able to sleep in. I hope you all get the day off too!

Cabin Fevahhhh!!!!


Necklace/Collar, gifted from Cath; Sweater, Old Navy; Checked  button-up, thrifted here; Jeans, Madewell; Boots, Frye.

Oh I know you guys feel it too, right? Cabin fever! Too many days trying to work from home in my pjs. Working from home always sounded dreamy to me until I realized, without much human interaction, my personal hygiene deteriorates much more quickly than it should. I ventured out Wednesday – cautiously (crunch, crunch, slip! crunch, crunch, %$@#!) – to go to work.

The good thing about escaping to work? I had to actually get dressed and  put on real people clothes (see photos for proof!).

And today (Friday!) I got to see Cath in for the first time in a week! I’m actually staying over at her place tonight so that we can get up bright and early and go volunteer together for the Martin Luther King Project.

What are you guys up to this weekend? I hope you are all staying warm and safe – and if you are south of the equator, dry and cool.

p.s Wedding Update: I bought my second wedding dress today. Yup. Number deux. It’s not as crazily bridezilla as it sounds (I think/hope). 1) One dress was under $250 and the second was under $400. Shoot! That still sounds excessive. How about 2) I did it for you readers! The more fashion/style, the better, right? So really I bought them for blog research. Legit. Totally. If you ever need a reason to buy something you love because it makes your eyes roll back and your tongue loll, start a fashion blog. Research is a great excuse incredibly valuable.

Oh, and I’ve also figured out (knock wood) what I’ve decided to do wedding-wise. Are you interested in my wedding/elopement plans, readers? Please let me know if you are like “heard one bride story, heard them all.” There will be another Wedding Update installment if this seems interesting to you. Do tell!

Because the South Doesn’t Have Snowplows

We’re going into day three of our snow days in Atlanta. The snow started falling Sunday, then there was freezing rain on Monday and it’s stayed below freezing ever since. With only a couple inches of accumulation on the ground, this would be nothing for those of you up north. However, considering that the City of Atlanta only has two snowplows (that’s right, TWO), everything has remained frozen and almost every secondary street has turned into an ice skating rink  -schools are closed again tomorrow for the third day in a row.

Lar and I took these photos a few hours before it began to snow on Sunday. It  really wasn’t that cold outside, so I scoffed at all the southerners stocking up on milk, bread and eggs. That was before I realized that Atlanta only had two snowplows and no one down here seems to have any salt or sand of any kind. A co-worker picked me up in his snow chain equipped SUV on Monday, but I’ve been working from home ever since. Hurrah for the internet! Kind of. . .

These outfits are basically two takes on cold weather wear – and I’ll be the first one to admit that Lar’s is by far more elegant: her hat is a recently thrifted purchase, scarf from Vivid (a local boutique), coat from Victoria’s Secret, jeans? I have no idea, and Frye boots. My coat is from Delia’s ages ago, Cheap Monday jeans and Lar’s H&M boots.

Here’s proof that the south is (or at least Atlanta) is frozen over. (My leather Frye boots have held up pretty well in the snow and ice). Troy and I shuffled about half a mile to our local pub this evening. Nothing like a pint to warm you up and I didn’t even fall once! Do you like my Team Zissou hat? It’s Troy’s roommate’s hat. I snatched it before we headed out and hate how it clashes with my pink plaid shirt, but was so grateful for the warmth. I usually can’t relate when people say they choose comfort over fashion (bring on the 5″ heels!), but when it comes to icy weather I could care less that I’m wearing a brown scarf with black accessories, a coat that would fit a high schooler better and a red hat that gives me terrible hat hair.

For those of you like my sis who can stay stylish when the weather is nasty, I salute you!