Category Archives: Miscellaneous

My London Dress in Decatur

The title sounds more complicated and hoity-toity than reality. Lar, being the sweet twin sister that she is, got me this dress at Spitalfields Market in London in February. So when people ask me about the dress and I tell them that it’s from London, it makes me sound like I’m some jetsetter that goes shopping on Bond Street – if only! I’d settle for some good, solid window shopping on Oxford Circus if I could even afford a ticket to London!

I wore my “London” dress out on a date night (you can tell it’s a date night because I bothered to put on lipstick). Troy and I went to Cakes and Ale for dinner (note to the locals: get the trout for two, you won’t be disappointed!) and then Colbeh Persian Kitchen and Bar for after-dinner drinks and then to Steinbeck’s for post-after-dinner drinks. I know, we’re gluttons! But we don’t do it every night week.

That’s my arm party in the photo below. I’m a little late on the trend and only did a tame version at that with three pieces. The watch is so old that it doesn’t even work with a new battery. When I brought it to a jewelry store to get the battery changed, the sales clerk said it wasn’t even worth repairing. Harumph! I still like it because it’s my only piece of silver and gold jewelry so I still wear it all the time. You should see the looks I get when people ask me for the time and I have to scrounge around in my purse for my phone while wearing a watch.

I love any dress with pockets – and I mean it. If a potato sack had pockets, I’d belt it and wear it everyday. Not only does this dress have pockets, it has zips!

And if zippered pockets weren’t enough to delight me, the waistband is elastic! I might as well be wearing yoga pants – perfect for big meals and, uh, some light drinking.

Outfit details: Spitalfields Market dress, Mettle necklace, Madewell shoes, BCBG OMG bracelet, Ann Klein watch, Shashi bracelet.

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Dearest Lar,

Thank you again and again for my lurvly dress! I got so many compliments on it – even one compliment where a guy said “I like how it’s kind of sheer, but covered up!” Sheer?! I freaked out a bit – and was a little creeped out – but Troy assured me that it’s a perfectly opaque dress.

Are you going out for high tea this weekend? I am! Troy, mom, dad and I are going to try out Cozee Teas, a new teashop in Decatur. I’ll report back, but am not going to hold my breath for real clotted cream!

love, cath

May in Edinburgh — And It’s Snowing

Snowing in the morning, sunny and beautiful in early afternoon (and all of us scurry out and sit outside — in 50 degree weather), and then it hails again a few hours later. Whoever said Scotland is just rainy is a big fat liar. It does rain, but just as often you’ll have sun (and wind and hail and rainbows). They are all timorous beasties.

So what do you do? You throw on your favorite scarf, cross your fingers, and head out into the belly of the city:

Sly Pete Scarf from Etsy (check out Laura’s fantastic style blog here) • Primark coat • Vintage Coach bag • Madewell skinnies • Hunter boots (on sale!)

I still haven’t gotten over the thrill of sitting on the second level of a double-decker bus (even though it makes me slightly queasy on longer rides). You can see so much of the beautiful city from up there. I always want the bus rides to last forever — I don’t think I’ll ever live in another city where I’ll wish that to be the case:

Book shops and newstands in abundance — two of my favorite things:

We have some friends here who are members of a club (can you guess which club from the subtle clues I left in the photo below?). They invited us to said club for lunch. I felt very Wooster-at-the-Drones-club, except when I was taking covert photos. Real club members don’t do that. Thanks for the invite, S&J!

Post “clubbing” we had to refortify with a slice of cake (and tea):

Then we hopped on another bus and went to a castle! I love castling. I have a whole post dedicated to going to this castle, so I hope you guys like castling too (yes, it’s a verb! — according to me):

Then back home for another delicious bowl of kedgeree (aka British fried rice):

Which we ate while watching the sun set in our apartment around 8:30 pm (the sun now rises at about 5 am — oi, my eyes)!

So the weather here isn’t easy, but who doesn’t like a good challenge? Especially when you have very long spring days, castles, tea, kedgeree, books and leather-arm-chaired clubs to assuage any malcontent at a snowy May.

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Dear Cath,

Click on that Drones club link above — it’s Hugh Laurie singing “47 Ginger-Haired Sailors.” I wish he sang in “House” — it would almost cancel out the hypochondria response I have to every episode.

I can’t wait to post the photos of Craigmillar Castle too! I think the day we went (8 years ago!) it was rainy and we didn’t stay long. I remember our trip to Linlithgow’s castle better. But Craigmillar has plenty of twisty staircases and hidden hallways to remind me why we did so much castling as students.

I hope you are having a good week so far! I misssss you!!!

Love,

Lar

A Trip to Neimans

Last week Trina from Baby Shopaholic hosted a summer preview at Neiman Marcus. That’s her in those amazing pink shorts below:

Neiman’s style guru, below left, told us all about the upcoming trends. He had a much more official sounding title than style guru, but I’ve totally forgotten his name and title. Either way, he knows his stuff. Here he is showing off the model’s Valentino bow clutch – oooohhhhh:

One of the major trends this season? Hot pink – which Kristen from Lily Kai (below right) embodied with her double breasted blazer and orange dress:

While the peach-colored, quilted Channel bag wasn’t my cup of tea, everyone else was dying to pet the thing – leather like butter!

Apparently maxi skirts and dresses are around for a little bit longer. I usually shy away from them since I have to get all maxi items hemmed. I loved the flow and pattern of the orange maxi skirt – wonder if Neimans sells a version that’s about 2 feet shorter. . .

All the Helmet Lang pieces were my absolute favorite – drape-y, timeless, elegant. This white, grey and yellow number draped so beautifully. If I had all the money in the world I wear nothing but Helmet Lang.

Another Helmet Lang top:

The preview ended with this amazing Alice and Olivia dress. It made me wish I had a special occasion coming up where I could wear it.

Check out the back:

And just a little extra, I snapped a photo of these sparkly Sam Edelman heels. I’ve been looking all over for the perfect d’orsay pumps and I think these might be it – just need to save up a few paychecks for them!

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Dear Lar,

Going to fashion and blogger events always makes me miss you even more. Everyone was so sweet and asked after you. Maybe when you come back to visit in December we can go to an event together – that’s only like, what, 8 months away!

xoxo, Cath

 

 

I’m Going to Be So Jealous of You!

Why? Because you have the chance to go to the Atlanta Sassy City Chicks event for free!

Here are the details:

I’ll be out of town for the event (hence the jealousy), but the first 25 AsianCajuns readers that enter the code ASIANCAJUNS at checkout will get in for free and receive a sassy tote.

Attendees will get to shop summer and spring fashions up to 80% off, sip on cocktails and get their hands on some VIP swag. Oh, I wish I could go!

If you are one of the first 25 to use the code, make sure to take pictures at the event and send them to me so I can live vicariously through you.

Best of luck!

P.S.: To our non-Atlanta readers, I promise we’ll have a giveaway soon that won’t just be limited to the southern United States.

How To Properly Worship the Sun in Scotland

Sometimes Edinburgh looks like this:

It is a beautiful city no matter the weather (good thing too), but when the sun comes out I swear it is sunnier and brighter than any place I’ve ever been. It’s kind of like when Dorothy steps out of her black and white Kansas farmhouse into the technicolored land of Oz. Birds gustily burst into song, rainbows spring out of emerald green hills, and all of Edinburgh breathes a happy sigh.

Here’s the thing though. Just because it’s sunny and the birds and rainbows are doing their thing, it doesn’t mean it is warm. Warm-ish, maybe, but not warm (unless you are one of those people that says a windy 47°F is warm). But as any Scottish person worth their salt will tell you, it’s no reason not do a little sun worshiping. So I grabbed the mustached husbando and headed out doors.

First stop, Princes Street Gardens for quick outfit shooting:


The good: necklace from Kenya (thank you, Pam!) • vintage Coach purse
The could-be-better-ethically-speaking-but-none-of-it’s-new: Primark coat and tank • Uniqlo sweater • Madewell jeans • Frye boots

Ice cream is popular here. . . all year round. 47 degrees and windy, and Scots stand outside with ice cream running down their cones. Scots are made of stronger stuff than I (I opted for a chocolate brownie instead, life being full of hard choices):

Next up, wedding watching! We (being wanna-be Scots people) were sitting at an outdoor cafe (with our coats on) when this wedding parade strolled by to some very merry bag piping. Any given Saturday you will come across a wedding party waltzing after their bag piper — lovely!

P.S. I in no way enhanced any of these sunny photos in photoshop. Those vivid greens really exist here when the sun bothers to show up. Nutso, isn’t it?

And if you get nippy from trying to be a true Scots, just duck into your local café for tea and cake (tea and cake or death, tea and cake or death!).

There are some lovely views from cafe below the National Gallery, and such good cake. nom!

Now you’ve got the feeling back in your hands whilst holding your mug of tea and gobbling your cake, head back outside for some more lolling about in the grass — preferably in the shade of a large castle:

End your day outside as the sun sets (which is around 8 pm now — thank you nearly-Artic-circle latitude!), sniffing cherry blossoms and looking at church murals with wonderful morals:

Once home, inspect possible (I say, very slightly possible) evidence of a rosy glow (wouldn’t go so far to say “tan”) from the sun.

So who’s ready for a little sunbathing in Scotland?

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Dear Cath,

Do you remember when we were studying here how everyone would crowd the Meadows once it hit 60 degrees? We only had one spell like that so far, but I’m crossing my fingers that May will be at least a touch warmer than April — jacket weather instead of coat weather.

I would give anything to meet you here on the next sunny day. How does tomorrow sound?

Love,

Lar

 

 

Simon Fashion Bow Wow

Hello world! So sorry I’ve been away for over a week from blogging. Thank goodness for Lar and all her wonderful posts. Last week I did nothing but study for my final every day after work and before that I was in Orlando for work. But now I’m back and have a whole month off before summer classes start and I’m going to blog every chance I get – woohoo!

About a month ago I was asked to be a judge at the Simon Fashion Bow Wow – a fashion show featuring designs by students at Bauder College, worn by local media folks, walking down the runway with adoptable dogs from the Atlanta Humane Society in the middle of Lenox Mall owned by Simon. Got all that? No worries if you didn’t, just scroll and look at the photos to get a better idea of what the event was about.

Here I am with the other two judges. That’s Jennifer Franklin to my right and Deena Poythress to my left:

Simon Fashion Bow Wow has a special place in my heart since we got my parent’s dog, Boo Radley, at the Atlanta Human Society.

The following photos were taken by the talented Kate Awtrey.

I loved the red details on this color block dress:

Emily Foley looked so chic in this Marie Antoinette-inspired poof dress:

I’m a sucker for anything that’s cut on a bias – and purple!

Would you judge me if I told you that I would totally dress up my dog in this striped shirt and beret if I had this dress? You would? Well, I don’t blame you, but that wouldn’t stop me from doing it.

I’m really a horrible judge because I wanted every design to win (the winning student received a $250 Simon Mall giftcard).

Below is the winning dress with the designer carrying a dog in a matching ruffle collar:

Gah! So cute!

Needless to say, I had a wonderful time and will happily volunteer to judge any future shows featuring ridiculously cute dogs and incredibly talented students.

I realize now that I didn’t take any photos of my outfit that evening (fashion blogger fail). For those of you who are curious, I wore my cropped black pants from Ann Taylor, BB Dakota sleeveless white Reeder top, Mettle necklace, a long black cardi and my nude Vera Wang for Kohl’s pumps. You can kind of see my outfit better in one of the photos in the Tastemaker Magazine article.

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Dearest Lar,

I wish you could have seen all the dogs in the show. Most of them were too overwhelmed by the crowds so they had to be carried out instead of walked. One of the dogs was a puppy and he slept through the whole thing!

I wish you could have a dog in Scotland. You know how we were talking today about how cold you always are in your flat? Well, you would be so much warmer with a dog sitting by you. Toby is pressed up against me as I type this and my whole right side is overheated. Of course it helps that it’s like 80 degrees outside.

You and Matt should come back to Atlanta for a week just to get warm again (hint, hint). Are you guys still using your hot water bottles? It seems so wrong to ask that since it’s practically May.

I’ll be sending you warming, sunshine-y thoughts this week!

xoxo, cath

Ethical Fashion: H&M Conscious Collection


The Good: H&M Conscious Collection blouse • Thrifted Reiss coat
The Not-So-Good: Madewell jacket and sknnies • AE belt • Hunter boots


The Good: Mettle necklace • H&M Conscious Collection tank
The Eh: Blank cords • Hunter boots • Fast Fashion sweater

Ever since my ethical fashion awakening a few months back, I haven’t bought very much. I’ve picked up a few things at thrift stores, but I want to learn to shop less and shop better (thereby chipping away  at the fast fashion industry and my own voracious inner consumerism monster).

That sounds all very noble and good, doesn’t it? Well the second I heard about H&M revealing their Conscious Collection, I felt the consumerism monster rub his hands together with glee. He and I had visions of vegan bags, recycled metal bangles, and pretty spring dresses doing a guilt-free conga line in my head. Da da da da dah. DAH!

But once I was faced with an array of green-tagged items, I took it a little slower and remembered that I should just buy what I really like and think I will use. If a main tenant of being more ethical and sustainable is buying less, than the conga line needs to stay a fun, fluffy dream.

If you do go to tackle your own ethical demons at H&M, make sure to look for the green tags and the pink-threaded label. They have their conscious collection mixed in with their regular duds, and it took me a bit of “Crap! That dress isn’t actually made of organic cotton” to realize that just because it’s in the “Conscious Collection” display does not mean it’s conscious — a bit tricksy if you ask me.

If you want to know what they mean by “conscious” here are a few quick bullets about the collection:

• H&M is the number one user of organic cotton world wide

• They aim to make all of their clothing from organic, sustainable cotton by 2020

• They work with Unicef to protect children’s rights

• 72% of managerial positions are held by females

• They have skilled workers programs set up in Bangladesh

• In 2011 they donated 2.3 million garments to charities

I’m really impressed by how much information (i.e. transparency) H&M have on their website about their different efforts to be a better company. Most brands will give you, if you’re lucky, their usual “we carefully inspect our suppliers and make sure they are following their country’s workers’ rights guidelines” answer, which means diddly-squat.

To read more about all their initiatives here are some links:

H&M Conscious Collection

H&M charity work

H&M cotton sustainability

How H&M are actually improving workers’ conditions

• On most of these pages there is also a link in the sidebar to their 2011 Concious Actions Sustainability Report 2011. I’m making my way through this 89 page pdf today.

I just think this is so exciting! When a mega-huge fast fashion company is working its way toward sustainability, others (i.e. the rest) can’t be far behind. As consumers, if we keep pushing for more ethically and sustainably produced fashion, we will get it! By buying less and buying only “conscious” labels, you really do make a difference. Pretty fantabulouso, me thinks!

Oh and just in case you’re wondering, H&M is not and has never been a sponsor. I wasn’t invited to the Conscious Collection preview or fancy opening. I found out about their collection through bloggers that were invited to said shindigs. So this is unbiased blathering on my part.

Okay and now to let your ethically-focused minds have a rest, I leave you with another cute photo of our neighbor’s puppy:

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Dear Cath,

Good luck on your exam today! I will be thinking happy and very statiscally thoughts for you this afternoon/evening.

Miss you ooooodles and ooodles. Wish I could go H&M conscious shopping with you.

Love,

Lar

Edinburgh Weekend

It has been a gorgeous and sunny (yet still nippy) Sunday here following a moody, broody, rainy Saturday.

Just as a side note: I totally apologize to you guys who are bored by “this-is-what-I-did!” blog posts. Cath and I use them to see into each others’ lives. It’s one thing to skype, but you can’t show everything you do and see via video chat. So it’s a way to keep my twinie in the loop, visually. If you get bored, I apologize — and make it up to you with photos of cute puppies. So on to “this-is-what-I-did”ness:

Daisies seem to like temperamental Scottish weather:

Matt and I have discovered kedgeree: a delicious combination of smoked fish, soft-boiled egg, coriander/cilantro, a bit of curry powder — deeelicious. It’s like comfort food. I call it British fried rice.

We made a friend in our courtyard (Brits call it a “common garden”) we share with the block:

I finally got around to making these Mibo owls:

Matt and I tried out a new local café in our ‘hood. I think all cafés should have leather wing-backed chairs. This is what Matt looks like when he is humoring me pre-caffeine fix:

I’ve been a bad vegetarian, but I love smoked fish of any kind — with eggs apparently (see also “kedgeree”):

A perfect place for coffee and books tomes.

We smushed our noses against the glass of our favorite German bakery:

And gave in and bought these (to hell with the diet! — furtive guilty looks —):

Another local café looking pretty against a budding tree and quitessential Scottish clouds (always threatening rain and teasing you with peeps of blue sky):

This weekend we really swore off any type of good eating: fish and chips! But you can tell we felt guilty enough to sprinkle some mung bean sprouts about and put it on a bed of spinach:

Me enjoying the sun. Can you see the clotheslines behind me? We had just hung up our sheets:

One last photo of our cute, furry neighbor — I love when dogs look like they are smiling (warms the cockles):

I hope you guys had a lovely weekend too! I swear Matt and I don’t always just frolic about eating greasy food and pastries. We were grumbly all Saturday for no good reason (rainy, cloudy weather perhaps?) and spent hours just watching Dr. Who and My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding. I doubt you’d want to see a grumpy Lar slumped on the couch eating ice cream staring at diamante wedding dresses.

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Dear Kitcath,

How was Orlando?! We haven’t spoken in almost a week! TOO. LONG.

Isn’t this puppy so cute?! She was so sweet and would just roll around in the grass looking so happy.

Matt and I finally saw that Dr. Who about the weeping angels. Uber-creepy.

Can’t wait to catch up with you! You need to do a “this-is-what-I-did” post soon for me — okay?

Love,

Lar

Nerdy Post Alert: The Edinburgh Science Festival!

I moved from a city fond of its festivals (hello, Decatur!) to another city that equally loves to get its events party clothes on. Most people know about Edinburgh’s international Fringe Festival that happens the entire month of August, but few know about the (put your thick-rimmed glasses on) Edinburgh International Science Festival!

And, let’s be honest, I wouldn’t have had anything to do with something with the word “science” in the title if I didn’t have a mad scientist for a husband. But when Mr. Mustachio asked if I would like to go to a lecture on epigenetics (wha.?) I said yes because he so rarely asks for anything, and he looked all sparkly-eyed and the curls in his mustache twinkled.

Now before you think “Yawn! Who wants to hear more about science-y stuff?” let me just say that this festival knows how to cater to the scientist and non-scientist alike. Matt and I went to five different events, and I understood what was going on most of the time (pretty extraordinary considering that I took all of one science class at college). And you guys would have really enjoyed them too, I swear! Here are some highlights:

We were taught how to forage at the Edinburgh Botanic Gardens:

And then were served an incredibly delicious breakfast made from foraged findings around town:

We learned about the biochemistry of whisky.

. and then got terribly tipsy during the tasting research:

And I so wish I had made it to these two, but found out about them too late:


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Physics and Fashion: how nanotechnology is being used in clothing to help people with physical ailments (sooo awesome! Read more about it here). Catalysed Kilts and Jeans: really this is the ultimate in green fashion. These jeans and tartan actually clean the air while you wear them! (Read more here).

I feel like Bill Nye the Science Guy saying this, but isn’t science so much cooler than you thought it could be?

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Dear Cath,

I hope you are having a wonderful trip down to Orlando today. Hopefully you can read this post on your way down. I know I talked your ear off about it, but now you get to see real live photos!

Miss you so, so much!

Love,

Lar

Fun and Flooffy Bits


All things bought pre-ethical-guilt-awakening: Primark peacoat • Madewell jeggings • Mango booties

I realized my past couple of posts have been sooo wordy and thinky and angsty (ethical shopping! eating healthy! buying local!), that you guys might appreciate a little break from all that – heck! I would!

So this is just a little bit of fun and fluff, and things that happen when I’m not tormented about where to buy vegan make-up, shoes sewn by people earning a liveable wage, and where my sweet potatoes are grown.

Spring in Edinburgh! (So what it’s still only highs of 48 degrees when there’s blue sky and tenacious flowers):

It’s a gorgeous city, Edinburgh (view looking north over the Firth of Forth — a firth is like a bay and disappointingly not named after Colin):

Tea, and I don’t mean the drink. I mean mounds of clotted cream and scones, and salmon and cucumber sandwiches:

Here’s a close up for you:

Obviously scones and butter are the opposite of my vegan, gluten-free diet, but I have a hard time saying no to clotted cream. I mean, I can’t refuse a cultural experience, which is definitely what clotted cream is. Have you guys had it before? As far as dairy products go in the game of Britain vs. the States, Britain wins by a landslide.

Hope you guys had a wonderful weekend with bits of fluff!

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Dear Cath,

I hope you have a great week! For some reason it makes me sad that you are going to Orlando because that’s even further away than Atlanta! Next time you should have a conference in Edinburgh, okay? I’ll even take Toronto because the flight is much shorter (they go over the pole).

How did the rest of your paper writing go?

We need to start our August count down 😉

Love you!

Lar