30th Birthday

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Yep, Lar and I turn 30 today! I hate not being able to spend the day with her, but we’ll be celebrating together in Italy next month so I can’t complain.

In honor of the day, Lar and I put together a list of 30 things that we love:

1. Friends and family near and far
2. Traveling together – Seattle, New Orleans, Paris, Edinburgh
3. Our mom’s gumbo and Peking Duck
4. Skype and What’s App – it’s how we stay in touch!
5. Eating out with friends – there’s nothing better than good food and great company
6. Beach vacations – see: Ocean City and Tybee Island
7. Books – reading books, book festivals, book signings, book stores, book clubs
8. Jeeves and Wooster
10. The Wizard of Oz – our first favorite movie, we’ve amassed a large collection of Oz memorabilia
11. Art – history, museums, making it
12. David Hockney’s landscapes
13. Aunt Nancy’s almond cookies
14. All things British – we’re major Anglophiles
15. Jane Austen novels
16. Tea time – as in drinking cups of tea, not supper time
17. House museums
18. Wes Anderson films
19. Shopping at/ discovering local boutiques
20. Audrey Hepburn’s style – Lar’s take, Cath’s take
21. Meeting other bloggers
22. Dressing like twins
23. Trips to the Highlands – Scotland and North Carolina
24. Cake – chocolate for Lar, ice cream for Cath
25. Pretty things – we’re girly girls at heart and try to surround ourselves with beautiful things, even on a budget
26. TV shows: The West Wing, Gilmore Girls, Twin Peaks, Pushing Daisies, Arrested Development, Poirot, Luther
27. Ruth Bader Ginsburgh
28. Pink – the color
29. Drinks – White Russians (Lar), Old Fashions (Cath) and Hot Rum Cows
30. YOU, our reader!

Cath’s Style: Statement Necklace

Last Christmas I selfishly spent a big chunk of my gift shopping time looking for the perfect statement necklace for. . . myself. I ended up never finding a necklace in my price range and drowned my sorrows in eggnog. Just kidding about the drowning my sorrows – it was whisky, not eggnog. I’m kidding, again!

Bottom line, I never did get my hands on a great statement necklace – at least not until the Southern Blog Society Brunch a few weeks ago. This turquoise Brighthouse Baubles necklace was perched on the top of my gift bag.

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The color is perfect. It goes with almost everything I own, which means you’ll probably being seeing it a lot of this blog.

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 Brighthouse Baubles Bib Statement necklace • Primark top • Gap jeans • C Wonder bracelet • Zara heels • Liebeskind bag • AsianCajuns Double Mint nail polish

The necklace also matches my cell phone case. Lar bought it for me over a year ago and it’s the only one I’ve ever used with my iPhone. It’s a little chipped on the front, but I love the color so much I refuse to get another one.

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I’ve had these Zara heels for a couple of years now. Every time I wear them I get so many compliments on them – from men and women. I used to think it was cheesy when I’d hear women talking about how a good shoe could make their day. After buying these shoes, I totally get it.

Zara turquoise heels

Remember last week how a bunch of us Souther Blog Society bloggers styled the same denim jacket? We’ll we did the same with statement necklaces. Check them out:

Katie of Pearls and Twirls | Julie of Julie Leah | Jessica of My Style Vita | Jessica of Here and Now

Also, pop over to Ashlyn’s blog, Let It Be Beautiful, and check out my guest post on travel tips.

Happy pre-Friday!

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Dear Lar,

The only statement necklaces I owned before this one were the ones you left behind. Remember that hot pink/metal Madewell necklace of yours? I still wear it all the time! And those great DIY-ish necklaces from Florence years ago? Still wear those too. I wonder if that store is still around. We’ll have to go find it when we’re there together in August – eek! I get so excited just thinking about it! I’ll try to pack as much fun jewelry so we can both wear statement necklaces in Italy. Just make you you don’t pack those hiking boots 😉

Love, Cath

The Scottish Highlands

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Catherine and I consider ourselves city girls. We feel at home in a city, we love the energy and the diversity and all the stuff there is to do. I can marvel at quiet, beautiful, open-spaced country, but it intimidates me a little.

So it says a lot that the reason Cath and I fell in love with Scotland many years ago was not  because the gorgeous city of Edinburgh alone wooed us, but because we saw the Highlands.
A little background for those of you who haven’t been, the Highlands are the hilly and more mountainous bits of Scotland that start north of Glasgow and Edinburgh. Depending on how technical you want to get, the Highlands make up more than half of the land mass of Scotland, yet most of the population live in the cities. So when you are tramping around the Scottish countryside, you can go for miles and never see another soul.

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Sure, the Scottish Highlands have been overly romanticized (overly Brigadooned), but I think you can forgive the marketing people who push the rolling hills, William Wallace version of Scotland. It really isn’t too off the mark. I mean you don’t see men running around in kilts, but the austere beauty is totally real.
What makes it so stunning, even to a city mouse, is partly the emptiness. There aren’t many people or trees — just stretches of dramatic hills and mountains covered in burnt colored peat and purple blushed heather.
It is “Skyfall” without a de-jawed Javier Bardem. It’s Brigadoon without the kitschy tartan costumes. And it’s most definitely this Johnny Walker ad with Robert Carlyle.

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 But it’s also way better in person than on the big screen. It rains a lot and there are often moody looking clouds, but the air feels so clean and untouched. I almost prefer the Highlands because of their broodiness (clouds, misty, fog). The Highlands are beautiful in the sun, but they are perfect on rainy days with bruised skies.
Last weekend Matt and I took a train two hours north of Edinburgh to hike around the hills of Pitlochry. One down side to falling in love with the country? You end up forgetting about your urban sartorial trappings. I used to try to do a more glamorous hiking look (pretty boots, nice jeans, layers of jackets) — but that totally gets in the way when it’s rainy and windy and your legs ache from propelling yourself upwards for three miles. Also, you kind of don’t care how you look because you’re distracted by the beauty of the landscape all around you (until someone reminds you how weird you look on Instagram – gak!).

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Strange for city girls to fall in love with a rugged, windy, lonely place. I guess it’s true that opposites attract.
So what are you? City or country mouse and has any place in the world made you want to dip your toe in the other?
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Dear Cath,
One of my happiest memories will always being taking trains around Scotland with our Historic Scotland passes. Wasn’t that the best? Next time we are in Edinburgh together we have to castle hop.
Also. I MISS YOU!
xoxoxoxox,
Lar

The Jean Jacket is Back

. . . in my closet, that is. I suppose the jean jacket never really went out of style. I just went without one for a while.

Paige Denim Jacket

Paige Denim Jacket | Bib necklace from a shop in Las Vegas | Club Monaco skirt | Anne Klein pumps from TJ Maxx | Michele watch | American Apparel shirt

In college I would borrow Lar’s J.Crew denim jacket all the time and during sophomore year my uniform consisted of a Marc by Marc Jacobs knock-off denim jacket and knee-length skirts. In the passing years I’ve, um, “out-grown” Lar’s jacket and the knock-off was only trendy for about three seasons.

Paige Denim Jacket close up

I’ve been looking for the perfect denim jacket ever since. Then, as luck would have it, this lovely Paige Denim number was one of the items in Southern Blog Society brunch gift bag. It fits perfectly and has a bit of stretch of to it.

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Puppy love

Apart from my new jacket, the rest of the outfit is old. I’m trying to shop the back of my closet more because I’ll be seeing Lar in Italy in two months – which means I have to save like there’s no tomorrow.

Want to see some other outfits with the same denim jacket? Check out how some of the other stylish bloggers from the brunch are wearing the same jacket:

Baby Shopaholic • Glitter & Gingham • Here & Now • Julie Leah • Let It Be Beautiful • Lou What Wear • Pearls & Twirls • The Fashion Lush • My Style Vita

Over the next few weeks, all of us SBS brunch bloggers will be blogging about the same items so stay tuned for next week’s installment!

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Dearest Lar,

Do you remember your J.Crew denim jacket and my Marc by Marc knock-off? I loved that jacket so much that I still have it even though I don’t wear it anymore.

I suppose a denim jacket wouldn’t be much good in Scotland – not even layered under a water-proof parka. Has it been rainy all week in Edinburgh? I hope the sun comes out over the weekend so you and Matt can go hill walking again.

Love, Cath

SBS Blogger Brunch

Last weekend was a magical one. Jessica and Cathy, the founders of Southern Blog Society, hosted a wonderful brunch for 15 members at Cooks Hall in Atlanta. Well planned doesn’t even begin to describe it. These ladies thought of everything: a fashion blogger photographer (the talented Beka), personalized menus, and the most amazing gift bag known to (wo)man.

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I wore an Opening Ceremony dress from Rent the Runway. It was perfect for brunch because I could loosen the tied waistband – not that I needed to, ahem.

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 Opening Ceremony dress • Kenneth Jay Lane cuff • Payless shoes (a designer collab from years ago – originally Lar’s shoes)

The absolutely best part about the whole weekend was getting to see old friends and meet so many new blogging friends. It’s always a bit surreal when you finally get to meet someone in person that you feel like you already know because you’ve been reading her blog for months. I’ve included a complete list of the attendees and links to their blogs so you can check them all out.

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Those flower crowns in the photo below? They’re from the super creative and talented Allison Rhee of Flower Crown Society. I loved my flower crown so much that I attended Allison’s event at Free People this past weekend where I got to make my own fresh flower crown – see?
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A big thank you to Rebekah Carson Photographer for most of these photos!

Southern Blog Society Brunch Bloggers: My Style Vita • Poor Little It Girl • The Serena Saga • Julie Leah • Lou What Wear • Glitter & Gingham • The Fashion Lush • Let It Be Beautiful • Here & Now • Pearls & Twirls • Secretive Style • Waiting On Martha • Baby Shopaholic

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Dearest Lar,

I’m not going to go on about how much I wish you could have been at the brunch – but I really wish you could have been there! You would have loved meeting everyone.

I can’t believe that these past two weekends have been so busy. I feel like I haven’t Skyped you in forever! Do you have time to Skype during the week? I desperately need some quality sister time.

Hope you’re having a good week.

Love, Cath

Find AsianCajuns on Bloglovin’

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 Photo credit: Andy J. Scott

 

Hello, dear readers! I don’t think we say write it enough here, but having you in our blogging lives makes us so incredibly happy. Reading your comments, “meeting” you through social media, or – even better – meeting you in real life is just the bee’s knees. So, if you’ve been following us via Google Reader we wanted to make sure that you know you can find us on Bloglovin’ once Google Reader goes to the big browser in the sky July 1st (sob!).

We’re big fans of Bloglovin – love the interface and are all about the fact that Bloglovin’ visits count as page views for us. We’ve also heard Feedly is a great option as well, but haven’t tried it yet. Drop us a line and let us know what you’ll be switching to.

Cheers,

Cath & Lar

What’s the Haps in Edinburgh

Scotland-June

While Cath has been entertaining you with lovely fashion in Atlanta, Matt and I have been desperately trying to soak up the wee bit of sun coming our way in what is known as Scottish summer: a slight breeze, just above 60 degrees — and that’s as hot as it gets all year round. Interspersed between these “hot” days is the usual weather: 38-50 degrees, windy, mostly cloudy and sometimes rainy.

But one way Matt and I are coping with this mostly-winter-all-year-round business is by embracing all things that make rainy, dark-skied living bearable: becoming members of the Scottish Malt Whisky Society (oolala), dragging our visitors around town and reminding ourselves how beautiful ole Edinburgh is, and eating good food.

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Last month Matt became an official member of the Scottish Malt Whisky Society. How do you become a member, you ask? Love whisky and hand over some  moola, et voila! Not only do you get exclusive rights to sit in the Society’s leather-chaired club rooms around the city, you also get to swirl more drams of whisky (sniff, sniff, glug, glug) and pretend you taste all the 32 different notes you are supposed to taste in each cask.

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These days I’m not actually tippling (the above photo is all a farce! deep sigh) but I still love going with Matt to the whisky rooms. The arm chairs are so comfy, I love the smell of whisky (and think you can get tipsy after a few deep inhales of this 60% cask strength dram) and you get to read all the descriptions and tips for how to drink the stuff. The text is all a bit tongue-and-cheek (or at least, I think it’s supposed to be!). Here’s one suggestion for a whisky from the peaty regions of Scotland:

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And here are some of the descriptors I pulled from another cask entry in their whisky bible. Even if you aren’t a big drinker and particularly dislike the intensity of whisky, doesn’t this make you want a tipple?

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So good, isn’t it? The doughnuts are just on there because I liked the way they looked and think a whisky that tastes of doughnuts would be pretty high up there on the lists of things I would drink daily.

If you aren’t a big whisky drinker and know very little about the stuff, the next time you want to impress someone do this: pour yourself a wee dram (no water until after the first sip, and definitely no ice), swirl, sniff (with mouth partially open — yes you will look a bit dopey, but impressively so), sip and then say something like “a note of vanilla with a bit of peatyness.” Not nearly all whisky is either of those things, but hopefully the person you are trying to impress won’t know that, and vanilla and peat seem like fairly common notes in whisky. Or you can be inspired by the descriptions above and make up your own favorite meal and pretend you taste that in your dram.

Ever wonder what peat is/looked like anyway? Now you know:

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I leave you with one last delightful swirl of a description:

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But we aren’t just pretentiously sniffing amber liquids over here, Matt and I have also been playing tour guide to our lovely friends from the states! Here’s a classic Edinburgh Tourist Photo:

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Edinburgh very rarely looks this (above) sunny, but I’m so glad she was all sun-shiney and almost-T-shirt weathery for Alison and Greg (note: the hardened Scot in the T-shirt on the right, reasonably attired Atlantans on the left).

And of course, no good haps wrap-up is any good without food pics! These are a little subdued on the food front because I’ve been following a wheat-free, mostly dairy-free, meat-free diet for months and months. At times the old foodie in me cries a little at having to eat another bowl of beans and rice, but it’s all in the name of hopefully going pain free one day. And it’s not all bad — just look at the deliciousness below:

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I hope you guys have been enjoying a lovely spring/summer too. And if this kind of weather isn’t your thing (you love layers and roaring fires), come for a visit in Scotland the other 11 months of the year. You’ll be in love!

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Dear Cath,

I’m sorry that you always have to slog through my mishmash posts. You always have such beautiful fashiony things going on in the ATL. My fashion awareness I believe is at an all-time low. The strange thing is I don’t miss it until I see how lovely you look and I’m like “ooo I should wear a dress again.” I blame it mostly on the chilly weather here and my inability to wear contact lenses any more. I will give it a try once we are in Italy though! Speaking of which, I’m actually getting really excited for our trip. It seemed too far away to dream about until recently.

I hit up the library yesterday and got all of this:

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That Eat, Pray, Love in Rome book is actually by the guy (Luca Spaghetti) that Elizabeth Gilbert met in Italy. I thought it would be kind of cheesy and as if he were just coat-tailing it (maybe just a tad), but it’s totally gotten me so excited to go to Rome. You should see if the DeKalb Library has a copy. Unofficial AsianCajun Book Club, book one.

Hope you are having a wonderful time at the Southern Blogger Society brunch today! Wish I could be there with you!

LOVE,

Lar

Summer Wedding Dress

I was super excited about renting this Tibi dress from Rent the Runway for a wedding this past weekend. I’ve always wanted to try out Rent the Runway and figured a wedding was a perfect time to do so. Unfortunately the wedding was cancelled, but Troy was sweet enough to take some photos this weekend before I had to return the dress.

Rent the Runway Tibi dress

Tibi Coral Paradise Dress • Club Monaco necklace • Juliet & Company Wilma bracelet • vintage clutch • Forever 21 heels

See the photo below? That’s my I’m-running-for-office-and-I-only-have-a-dog-as-a-family-member photo opp. At least that’s what it looks like to me. I’ve been watching back to back episodes of VEEP so I was channeling my best Selina Meyer impersonation. If you have HBO, but haven’t watched Veep yet, make it the next thing you watch when you turn on your TV.

Tibi dress and Boo Radley

Adding gold accessories plays up the warmth of the coral-ish color – it’s more orange in person and more pink than the photos on Rent the Runway. If you follow me on Vine you might have seen my video unwrapping the Juliet & Company bracelet. I love it because it makes a jangly sound whenever I move my wrist.

Rent the Runway dress with accessories

I loved the material of the Tibi dress. According to the website the material is crepe de chine – whatever that is. It looked like a kind of shimmery silk and it didn’t wrinkle. Also it has a kind of formal crop top feel (is that oxymoronic?) without showing the midriff – so two thumbs up in the trend department.

Tibi dress close up

 

For those of you who have never used Rent the Runway, here’s how it works:

1.) There are a wide range of dresses on the site. I sorted them from low to high. The cheapest dress rentals start at $40, which isn’t bad considering that you don’t have to pay for return shipping or dry clean anything. Once you pick your item, you schedule when you want it delivered and then you have it for four days (or eight if you want to pay double). You can choose to add the same dress in a different size to your order for no additional charge, which I did since I always seem to fall in between two sizes.

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2.) The dress(es) arrived in a branded garment bag that you get to keep.

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3.) The shipment also comes with instructions just in case you’re like me and forget how everything works. You can see below that I received the same dress in two different sizes. I was really hoping the smaller size would fit, but no such luck! It made me really grateful that you can order more than one size.

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4.) On the fourth day, you just pop your items back into the prepaid envelop and drop it off at a UPS box – and that’s it!

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Rent the Runway also sends you a cute little Neutrogena  goodie bag with your order. I love a good goodie bag!

So all in all my first experience with RTR was a success. I’ve already scheduled another rental for the upcoming Southern Blog Society brunch. I can’t wait to show you guys the dress! It’s very not me so we’ll see how it turns out. Either way, I’ll let you know all about it in a few weeks. I realize this post kind of sounds like a sponsored post, but it’s not. I just figured if I was curious about RTR others would be too.

Tibi dress in the garden

 

For those of you who haven’t been following the blog for a while, the dog in all these photos is my parents’ dog, Boo Radley. He’s best buds with my two dogs, likes drinking water from the garden hose, and his favorite dish is chicken with rice and gravy.

P.S.: It’s actually Lar’s week to do a post, but she’s been busy showing two of our Atlanta friends around town so you’re stuck with me and my dress rental story. Our friends are in the UK for two weeks and I couldn’t be more jealous. It bogles my mind that I haven’t seen Lar since December. That’s five months!! We’ll be meeting up in August in Italy and that can’t come soon enough!

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Dearest Lar,

You should check out and see if there’s a Rent the Runway type company in the UK – surely there is! Since you have such a tiny wardrobe, renting a dress for a fancy event would be perfect for you!

Did you have fun at the Whisky Society today? I just realized that you can keep out of towners busy for weeks in Edinburgh. There’s so much history and culture to experience. If someone comes to visit me in Atlanta, I can only keep them busy for a few days with shopping, dining and the Coca-Cola museum. No historic castles here – although we do have the Cyclorama, which is pretty amazing!

I can’t wait to hear about everything else you’ve been up to with Alison and Greg. Have any of the pre-festival activities begun yet in town? I get giddy just thinking about the Edinburgh Festival!

xoxo, Cath

Ten Things We’re Loving Right Now

Happy Tuesday, everyone! Lar and I figured most of you wouldn’t be back at work until today – apologies to our British readers (including Lar) who had to work on Monday.

This week we decided to try to something new: a little Google Hangout just with the two us. Lar and I showed each other our top five things we’re currently loving. You can watch the full video below, but for those of you who are reading this at work – or don’t want to watch 16 minutes of our rambling – we’ve also linked all of our favorite things below.

For those of you who do watch the video, we would love feedback. Even though we’ve done a Google Hangout before, it’s still relatively new to us. Eventually we’d love to add readers too, but now we figured it’s complicated enough trying to find a time that works for our time zones!

Caths top fives

Cath’s pics:

1.) Kimberly Snyder’s The Beauty Detox Food

2.) Butter London Trout Pout

3.) A Beautiful Mess iPhone app

4.) Campers shoes (mine are in black, but they’re not available on line)

5.) Penfield Bascom Boyfriend shirt

 

Lars Top five

 

Lar’s pics:

1.) Frankie magazine

2.) Owl & Lion journal

3.) A cute dress from a local Edinburgh thrift shop

4.) Neal’s Yard Remedies to Roll

5.) Bioderma Sensibio H20